A First Timer's Guide to Hawaii: Our Hawaii travel guide is here to help you decide on which island (or islands) is best for you!
- Cyndi
- Oct 21, 2024
- 6 min read
Updated: Apr 15, 2025
The amazing Na'Pali Coastline in Kaua'i.
Aloha, island explorers!
Planning your first trip to Hawaii can be both exhilarating and a tad overwhelming. With its stunning beaches, rich culture, and endless adventures, Hawaii offers something for every family. But which island should you choose? Let's explore!
Which Island is Right for You?
Hawaii is the only state that is an archipelago consisting of 137 islands, but only eight are considered the main islands, six of which can be visited. Each offers its own personality and offerings. Here’s a quick breakdown to help you decide which island suits your family’s travel style.
Oahu – Best for Families Seeking Culture & Adventure Oahu, is home of the largest city and capital, Honolulu. This island also includes popular sites such as famous Waikiki Beach and Pearl Harbor. It's vibrant and diverse setting that blends urban excitement with natural beauty. Families will love the balance of outdoor activities like hiking Le'ahi, aka Diamond Head, taking surfing lessons, snorkeling in Hanauma Bay, along with cultural experiences like visiting the Polynesian Cultural Center. Don't forget to venture outside the city center to view lush rainforests, stunning mountains and of course, beautiful beaches. Oahu’s luxury resorts, condo and villa rentals offer world-class amenities and beachfront accommodations around the island.
Early morning view of Le'ahi (Diamond Head) from Waikiki Beach
O'ahu: Waikiki Beach at sunrise with Diamond Head in the background. Maui – For Beach Lovers & Adventure Seekers Maui is an excellent choice for a first-time visit. It's got something for everyone. Known for its golden sands, the most beaches and the scenic Road to Hana, Maui is perfect for families who want both beachside relaxation and a bit of adventure. Luxurious resorts such as the Four Seasons Resort Maui at Wailea offer private cabanas, kids’ clubs, and access to snorkeling and whale watching. Don't miss a sunrise at Haleakalā National Park or a day trip to the nearby Molokini Crater for some of the best snorkeling in Hawai'i.
Hawai’i Island (The Big Island) – For Nature Enthusiasts, Volcano Lovers & Stargazers If your family loves unique landscapes, the island of Hawaii is a must. You can explore active volcanoes at Hawai'i Volcanoes National Park or stargaze from Mauna Kea Observatory. Adventure seekers will love snorkeling with manta rays, while luxury travelers can enjoy opulent stays at resorts like the Mauna Lani, with private beaches and cultural immersion programs for kids.
Kilauea's caldera continuously smoking
Lava rocks and steam rising in Hawaii Volcanoes National Park - a family friendly adventure on the Big Island! Kaua'i – For Families Seeking Seclusion & Nature Known as the "Garden Isle," Kaua'i is ideal for families wanting a quieter, more laid-back experience. Explore the stunning NaPali Coast by boat, hike in the Waimea Canyon, kayak along the Wailua River, and visit secluded beaches. Resorts like the Grand Hyatt in Poipu (south shore) or 1 Hanalei Bay in Princeville (north shore) offer breathtaking views and family-friendly luxury, perfect for recharging after a day of hiking and exploring.
Double rainbows in Hanalei Bay, Kaua'i
Top Tips for First-Time Travelers to Hawaii
Plan early: Hawai'i is a popular destination, so book accommodations, tours, and restaurant reservations well in advance to secure your spot.
Consider the Time of Year: The best time to visit Hawai'i is during the shoulder seasons (April-May and September-November) to avoid large crowds and enjoy better weather (the costs may be better too!) I know that is hard to do with school schedules, so let’s plan your Hawai'i trip as early as possible to get access to the best accommodations, activities and reservations.
Don't rush during your trip. Plan to spend at least 7 days. Although it's a domestic trip, it still takes nearly six hours to get there from the west coast. It's also two-three hours behind (depending on time of year) so may also experience some jet lag.
Get a car: Renting a car is essential, especially if you want to explore beyond the hotel areas. It's easy to drive and park in most areas. Honolulu is a large city so be prepared for traffic and looking for and/or paying for parking like other large cities.
Island Hop Wisely: If you want to visit more than one island, plan to spend at least 5 days on each to fully experience what it has to offer. Inter-island flights are available frequently and approximately 30-45 minutes. You still have to deal with the time in airports and checking into new accommodations so this can cost about a half day of your vacation.
Book a Luau in Advance: This quintessential Hawaiian experience fills up fast, so make reservations for your family’s preferred date early. This is a first-time must do!
Embrace the Aloha Spirit: Hawaiian culture is rich in kindness and respect. Encourage your children to learn a few Hawaiian words like "Aloha" and "Mahalo" for a deeper connection to the culture.
Our Favorite Foodie Finds in Hawaii: A Culinary Adventure
During our recent family trips to Hawai'i, we discovered some incredible local eats that you absolutely have to try if you are in the area.
1. Puka Dogs in Poipu, Kauai We loved this place so much, we went twice! Puka Dogs offer a unique twist on the traditional hot dog, with tropical relishes and island-inspired sauces. It's the perfect quick stop when you're craving something fun and flavorful after a long hike. Be sure to stop by the sea turtles on Poipu Beach while in the area.
2. Art and Sushi at Japanese Grandma's Cafe, in the historic town of Hanapepe, Kauai This hidden gem combines art with delicious sushi, offering a cozy and creative atmosphere. It’s a must-visit for those seeking a laid-back vibe paired with fresh, beautifully prepared Japanese food.
3. Malasadas No trip to Hawaii is complete without trying malasadas, Portuguese-style donuts filled with island flavors like guava or coconut. Leonard’s Bakery in Honolulu has been serving them up since 1952, and we also loved the malasadas (plus a Hawaiian lunch) at Tex Drive In on the Island of Hawaii.
4. The Musubi Truck, Kauai With three locations in Kauai, The Musubi Truck brings a fresh twist to this Hawaiian staple. If you’re looking for a quick and delicious bite, these rice and seaweed-wrapped delights are a must-try. Delish!
5. Holy Grail Donuts, Hanalei Bay, Kauai
Warm, handmade taro donuts made with local ingredients? Yes, please! We waited in line in the rain at Holy Grail Donuts, and it was worth every minute. These donuts are made fresh and offer a taste of the islands in every bite.
6. Java Kai Coffee Roasters, Kiluaea, Kauai We couldn’t resist visiting Java Kai twice just for their Coconut Cortado Kai. The coffee here is amazing, and it’s a great spot to recharge before or after a day of exploring.
7. Fresh Poke in Honolulu If you have a car in Honolulu, take the opportunity to explore the many fish markets for fresh poke. It’s the best way to enjoy this iconic Hawaiian dish straight from the source.
FAQ: First-Time Trip to Hawaii
How many islands should I visit on my first trip?
It's best to focus on one or two islands to fully immerse yourself without feeling rushed.
Is Hawaii suitable for young children?
Absolutely! Many resorts offer kid friendly amenities, and there are plenty of activities for all ages. It's not only great for kids, Hawaii makes a perfect multi-gen vacation destination.
Do I need to worry about jet lag?
Hawaii is 2-3 hours behind the West Coast, so give yourself a day or two to adjust.
Ready to Make Your Hawaiian Dream a Reality?
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